Well, first tell everyone that they weren't dating. After that you can deal with the guy. If it's bothering you so much then yes you should bring it up with him, but I would suggest not and just let it pass by. I mean, what this guy did was probaly just to look cool and it was just an idiotic thing to do and probably after this, he won't do the same thing again.

Thats true we will see. It was just an attempt to look cool.

One of my best guy friends has a crush on me. I dont like him back. I told him that really nicely. He still keeps on trying to get me to do stuff  with him andI dont know if I should tell him  that i dont like him back harsher. Or if I should ignore him.

I think that being nice to him was a really good thing to do first, unfortunately, he apparently didn't exactly get the message. I would suggest telling him again, but still in a nice gentle way. If he, again, fails to get the message, be more assertive.

Remember, assertive and aggressive are two different things. Assertive is where you stand up for yourself and your beliefs, but without being mean and cruel. Aggressive is actually being mean, actin like a bully and physically (potentially) harming another person. So remember, assertive not aggressive.

Also, I would suggest not ignoring him or anything along the lines of treating him different that what you usually would as a friend. You probably don't want to lose this guy as a friend, and just ignoring him by pushing him away will not solve anything and could possibly jeopardize the friendship you two share.

Mainly though, it comes down to you and how you're feeling about this. If you're feeling annoyed by this, you tell him. If you're feeling uncomfortable about this, then tell him. It's not all about you giving in so he can be happy, it goes both ways, 50-50 (well if you wanted to, I guess you could say yes just to see how it goes and what not, but that's really up to you). You've got to tell him that you don't see him in a romantic way and you only see him as a friend and it won't go past that.

If it really gets to the point where you are stressed out because of this, instead of lashing out with harsh words and what not, just tell him "Stop". Not a timid "Please, stop", because that probably wouldn't work if it elevated to that point. Just a plain "stop". Hopefully it shouldn't get to that point, but ya never know.

My friend who I haven't talked to in 6 months because my phone was. Taken away and she moved away. I couldn't text her and now my phone was given back. And I have started texting her back and now she hasn't been texting me back. I know this will sound stupid. But should I give up on the friendship or should I confront her on it. I'm not sure what to do. I get really disappointed when she doesn't text back.

Personally, I wouldn't give up on her. I mean, she still is your friend. Just because she hasn't texted you back doesn't mean you should end your friendship. Also, she probably felt a little hurt that you wouldn't answer her texts/calls (consideing she actually called or texted) in 6 months. But, something as little as not texting each other for a while isn't worth ruining a friendship.

If you two have almost no face to face time, that will put a slight strain on things, but if you can actually meet up with each other every once in a while, and it's really bothering you, it's something you should confront her about. That way, both you and her know have the story straight.

Well, I Don't know if she feels hurt but I don't want to be annoying and keep texting back if she won't respond.

ok so I have a crush on my best friends ex boyfriend. Who she hates because she was going to break up with him and he broke up with her first. Should I go for it OR give up and let it go. And would I be a bad friend if I did?

Go for it. I mean, I would suggest waiting a little bit, just for her to cool off a little bit. But, your friend should understand your feelings too.

I agree. :)